Headed to the bathhouse for the first time ? Here are some things you need to know .
You ’ ve heard about gay bathhouses . They get a bad rep as dirty , vile places that gross old men go to for anonymous sex . If that ’ s your current opinion , it ’ s probably best to wait . Going to a bathhouse requires a certain level of open-mindedness , because the fact is that many bathhouses are filled with older gay men , and many of them do go there for anonymous sex , but that is neither gross , dirty , or vile . Bathhouses can actually be pretty fun , so if you ’ re curious , definitely give them a try . For your first trip , here ’ s a list of tips that will make it a good experience .