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Anyone who’s been to Vietnam knows the roads are bedlam. Millions of motorbikes dashing around in all directions. Road safety? It’s unheard of. A family of four, their dog and a wardrobe wedged onto one bike is a normal sight. For the fi rst few days I thought shit, what have I let myself in for? But the chaos somehow works. Within three weeks, and to the dismay of my mother, I was amongst the tooting bustle of drivers. Th e diff erence in horn-honking etiquette in the east and west still amuses me. In Asia it’s mostly a non-aggressive way of saying, ‘Oi! Just so you know I’m right behind/in front/beside you.’ Whereas here, it’s an act of sheer road rage; a way of hurling an imaginary middle fi nger at someone (often accompanied by an actual middle fi nger). I was teaching my fi rst class the day after arriving. I was excited, but also terrifi ed. A Vietnamese teacher called Ms Vy picked me up at 5.30am on her motorbike. It was a day of fi rsts because I’d never been on the back of a 96 bike before. I clung onto her waist for dear life as she zigzagged through the traffi c; not the usual commute that’s for sure! As we walked through the gates the children ran towards us shouting, ‘Hello, teacher!’ We must’ve set the world record for high-fi ves because within fi ve minutes I’d basically high-fi ved the whole school. Th e bell rang and it was time to face the music, or in this case forty very energetic children sat waiting for the lesson to start. I was convinced they knew it was my very fi rst lesson. Ms Vy was there to observe and assist if needs be, but it went surprisingly well, and she gave some really helpful feedback. I was so sweaty after all the singing and dancing, but I felt a huge sense of relief. Most importantly, I couldn’t wait to teach again. To this day, ‘Baby Shark’ and the ‘Gummy Bear Song’ still echo in my mind. Th at one-way ticket turned into seven months of living in Vietnam and six months travelling around Asia. I then came home for a year to save up for another six-month trip, and now I’m on a working holiday visa in Australia. Th ey do say once you catch the travel bug that’s it! Saving up to quit your job and travel requires commitment, weekends in and less spending on things in general. But it’s also a huge privilege to even have the opportunity, and it’s one I’m very grateful for. Th ere are loads of ways to travel on the cheap if you’re not in a fi nancial position to gallivant around the world for months without working. Look into working holiday visas in Australia, Canada and New Zealand. Seasonal work is also popular. A few of my friends worked in bars and housekeeping at ski resorts and had a blast. Volunteering is another option, and a great website to use is www.workaway.info. It has thousands of hosts across the world looking for all sorts of help with projects including eco retreats, schools, wildlife conservations and permaculture. I’ve met some incredible people and experienced some amazing things on my travels, but it isn’t always as glamorous as Instagram portrays. Th e photos shared in those little boxes don’t show the tears, the homesickness, and the situations that stretch your character and put your limits to the test. "Th at one way-ticket turned into seven months of living in Vietnam."