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Life in lockdown Liana Shaw speaks to parents about their working from home/home-schooling struggles during lockdown They say it takes a village to raise a child. I think we have all discovered that during this topsy-turvy year so far, there have been real examples of us banding together as a community to give some sense of normality amongst the chaos. Speaking of chaos; how was your lockdown? How was your experience of working at home (if you did) with children around? Every family is different and at the end of the day, as I said to many of the families I work with, it was a ‘please do what’s best for you’ situation. Unless you are Obama, who called this pandemic back in 2014 (seriously, check out the video on this that’s floating around the internet, who knew he could see the future?), no one was expecting 2020 to be turned on its head so drastically. Especially not children. It was so interesting to hear the different experiences of others, especially when it came to how they taught and looked after their children. As I work with children, I know that this has had a huge impact on them, and I have nothing but admiration for their resilience – and that extends to their families too! As humans, we are naturally very adaptable. We’ve had to be. Personally, there were times I missed the children I work with. Their laughter, their hugs. Their wonderful ideas and energy. It’s hard trying to communicate with young minds through a screen. Whilst I’m very thankful for the technology (education wouldn’t have been the same without it), there is always a little something lost in the transmission of yourself. But it made me appreciate how much I relish being in a classroom, how much I relish the laughter and the connectivity. Like a little hive of bees. It is not to be taken for granted. Thank you to those who got in touch to share your thoughts. It can be hard to talk and share, especially in times of struggle. Though it wasn’t all bad, your stories of strength and determination and that ‘let’s get on with it’ attitude, have been enlightening. Here are some of your stories*. 54