MamaMagic Milestones Winter 2014 | Page 51

Remember it’s not a race; each child develops at his own pace. As long as the basic milestones are being met your toddler will progress and become physically and socially adept. Trust your instincts as a parent. If you feel something is not right, have it checked out as an early intervention will only benefit your toddler. The exploring and play that he is doing as a toddler is his job, his mission to become school ready and to cope in the classroom. 49 24 - 36 Months Developmental Checklist Physical Development Emotional and Social Development • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Ride a tricycle Climb steps, 1 foot per step Climb down steps, 2 feet per step Walk on tip-toes for fun Throw and kick a ball Build a 9 cube tower with ease Enjoy playing with blocks, building bridges Turn pages of books Copy circles Use scissors to cut paper (but always supervised!) Manage 2 piece puzzles Thread beads with ease Language and communication • • • • • • • • • • • Know his name and sex Talk non-stop Have a large vocabulary Manage small threading and finer detail Understand a whole lot more than he can say Refer to his things as “Mine” Recognise sounds in the environment Asks “What‘s that?” and “Why?” Name pictures and label everyday items Want to learn new words Hears everything! Show signs of wanting to toilet train - especially girls Eat with a fork Want to be around other children but is still very selfish Love to give and receive cuddles - very affectionate Have temper tantrums, especially when frustrated and tired Enjoy ordering you around and may like to be the boss! Have mood swings, moving from happy to sad in a matter of minutes Warning signs If at the end of the third year your child displays any of the following, please consult a professional for a full assessment: - Uses single words only - Does not follow two instructions e.g. “Go to your bedroom and fetch your shoes.” - No interest in toilet training - Does not identify familiar people and objects - Not interested in other people or new situations - Cannot sit and amuse himself for a few minutes at a time About the author: Liz Victor is the director of TOPTOTS Early Learning SA and the co-author of Play learn know (Metz Press). All of her books are also available in Afrikaans. www.toptots.co.za