MamaMagic Milestones Winter 2014 | Page 39

1. Limit your baby’s awake time in-between naps Believe it or not, it is the awake time and not the sleep time that drives healthy sleep patterns. An over-tired, over-stimulated baby will struggle to fall asleep without extensive assistance, such as being fed or rocked to sleep. A baby who is calm and sleepy will fall asleep with ease and with little intervention. 2. Understand your baby’s signals A lot of the time, an over-stimulated baby will show signs of tiredness and sensory overload. These signals, such as irritability, pulling up their legs, fisting their hands, yawning, sneezing and hiccupping, are often incorrectly attributed to winds and cramps. The caregiver then spends much time fiddling with the baby, trying to break wind, checking for a dirty nappy and so on – all of which continue to over-stimulate baby, resulting in ongoing fussy behaviour. 3. Have a consistent sleep zone Having a consistent and calming sleep zone will ensure that your baby is able to fall asleep without resistance. This is especially so for older babies, who need a consistent and unstimulating sleep space in order to regulate themselves sufficiently to become calm so that sleep can follow. 4. The importance of routine Children, especially toddlers, thrive on routine. A flexible routine is important to ensure a healthy balance between sufficient play and stimulation with quiet and calm time. Day-time naps are still important until well into the toddler years. 5. Early to bed Children should, ideally, be in bed and asleep by 19:00 every night. Depending on