Malayzia Mag Issue 7: The Thanksgiving Edition | Page 24

should do something nice for his lady monthly at the very least. My favorite
saying is “the same thing you did to get her, you have to do to keep her”. I
couldn’t have said it better myself. It is NEVER okay to get comfortable doing
just enough because “just enough” will only be enough for so long.

Tip #7. STOP making excuses.
If your response was anything other than “I think I can handle that”, you need
to stop making excuses and start making the effort. If your excuse is that you
can’t afford to do nice things
for your lady, you need to
invest the time in finding things
you can do for her that don’t
cost a thing. If you don’t have
the time to spend to make sure
your woman is being kept, you
may need to reorganize your
priorities and make sure she’s
at the top of the list. I’m not saying your woman should be your number one
priority but with the exception of God (especially when she’s your wife), she
should be pretty high on the totem pole…above friends, video games, your
job…you see where this is going.
Anytime you feel that you no longer have to work at making and keeping your
woman happy, just be prepared to step aside and watch another man do what
you didn’t…and then some. Good luck guys!
A couple budget-friendly, time saving ways to achieve romance:
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Call and leave a message on her voicemail telling you were just calling
because you miss her. Cost $0. Time: 1 Minute.
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Cook her dinner or (even order take-

out) and have it ready when she gets home.
Turn down the lights, light a couple candles and
put on some music, grab a bottle of Moscato
D’Asti ($11.99 @ Kroger Stores) and a couple champagne flutes ($7 @ Target)
and you’re headed in the right direction. Cost: $50> Time: 2 hours.