skilled at what they do ; and they will become more interested in relationships with other people . They will also become more interested in their own bodies . This interest is normal - and it can help your child become more confident in their own skin . If they have always felt self-conscious of their body , they may find their increased attention to the way they look empowering and positive . Now is the time to celebrate your child ’ s development as a person . They are growing and changing , and they may be feeling a lot of new and different emotions . Be there for them , and help them navigate these new feelings and experiences .
Keep in mind that your teenager ’ s interest in sex is normal and healthy . It is part of their development as a person , and it is something to be celebrated . Your teenager does not want to be “ fixed ” or “ cured ” of their sexual urges , they instead want to be welcomed and supported in them . Your child wants you to acknowledge and respect their feelings , regardless of whether or not you share them . Your child wants to be loved and celebrated as a person , not just for their physical appeal . In short , don ’ t focus on their sexuality , enjoy your child as a whole person !
Help them create a balanced lifestyle and to discover their purpose
Holistic wellness is just as important for them as it is for us adults . In this article , we have talked about their bodies and how to keep busy in other activities that are useful for their soul .
Explore your teens passions and interests . After that you can work with them to find their purpose . Teens often question how they fit into the world and how they can make a difference . This is a great opportunity for you to guide them towards discovering their purpose . Begin by asking your teen , “ Why do you paint ?” or “ What do you want your music to accomplish ?” This will help them clarify their passions and discover the purpose behind them .
Once you know what inspires your teen and what they want to accomplish with their passions , you can help them find a way to make a difference . Whether it ’ s volunteering at a local arts center or donating old musical instruments to a less fortunate school , there are many ways teens can make a positive impact .
Teens are a unique and challenging audience to engage . However , if we come alongside them with the right tools and techniques , we can help them discover their identity and purpose in life . By communicating with your teen , making time for Godly activities , helping them discern good from bad and understanding the importance of service , you can help them find their passion and purpose . Begin investing in your teen ’ s identity today .
Happy teenage parenting !!!!
Emma Ngutu is a strategy , sales , marketing and communications professional who is passionate about wellness . She is the founder of The International Centre for Youth Wellness ( ICY WELL ). To reach her visit www . icywell . org or email lakeside @ icywell . org .