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SELF-CARE Self-care: A Tool Of Great Leaders By Joe Nyotu M el Robbins, an American television host, author, and motivational speaker, says, “Think again. Taking care of yourself can require less time than waiting in line for your iced latte. And when you make time for self-care, you have more energy. When you have more energy, you are more productive. When you are productive, your mood improves. When your mood improves, your confidence grows. When your confidence grows, your relationships are better. When your relationships are better, you make more time for self-care. Rinse and repeat.” All the stress relief activities in the world will not help if you are not taking care of yourself. Meditation will not do you any good if you are not getting adequate sleep. In fact, when you try to meditate, you might doze off because you are not taking care of your body's need for sleep. Similarly, hitting the gym once in a while won't relieve much stress if you're only fueling your body with high-processed junk food. You need to take care of your basic needs first if you want your stress relief activities to be effective. According to a 2017 journal article titled, "Development of a Self-Care Assessment for Psychologists," self-care is defined as, "a multidimensional, multifaceted process All stress relief activities in the world will not help if you’re not taking care of yourself. Meditation will not do you any good if you’re not getting adequate sleep. In fact, when you try to meditate, you might doze off because you’re not taking care of your body's need for sleep. Hitting the gym once in a while won't relieve much stress if you're only fuel- ing your body with high-processed junk food. You need to take care of your basic needs first if you want your stress relief activities to be effective. 88 MAL32/19 ISSUE of purposeful engagement in strategies that promote healthy functioning and enhance well-being." Self-care is vital for building resilience towards those stressors in life that you can't eliminate. When you've taken steps to care for your mind and body, you'll be better equipped to live your best life. Unfortunately, however, many people view self-care as a luxury, rather than a priority. Consequently, they are left feeling overwhelmed, tired, and ill-equipped to handle life's inevitable challenges. It is important to assess how you are caring for yourself in several different domains so you can ensure you're caring for your mind, body, and spirit. Physical Self-Care You need to take care of your body if you want it to run efficiently. Keep in mind that there's a strong connection between your body and your mind. When you’re caring for your body, you will think and feel better too. Physical self-care includes how you're fueling your body, how much sleep you're getting, how much physical activity you are doing, and how well you are caring for your physical needs. Attending appointments, taking medication as prescribed, and managing your health are all part of good physical self-care. When it comes to physical self-care, ask yourself the following questions to assess whether there might be some areas you need to improve: Are you getting adequate sleep? Is your diet fueling your body well? Are you taking charge of your health,