MADEUS
When it comes to being overwhelmed,
I’ve had my fair share. Over these past
year, I’ve learned how to create healthy
boundaries and not feel guilty when
I can’t get to every DM, comment, or
email. I’ve learned when social media
starts to become overwhelming, that
it’s time to get off and get in God’s
word. Limiting how much time I spend
on social media, create less time for
distractions when trying to focus on my
own goals.
I’ve noticed for some individuals with a
large following, it can be hard for those
closet to you to adjust to the “fame” that
comes with being
an influencer. How
comfortable are your
family and friends
with your life as an
influencer?I love
getting to explain
to them the cool
opportunities and
friendships I’ve gained
from being on social
media. Some can’t
grasp it, others find it
interesting. The one
thing I can say though,
they don’t treat us any
differently. And for the most part, we
don’t even discuss it unless they ask. It’s
been such an honor getting to have the
community we do and having their lives
be impacted by the words we share.
The support and love keep us going
especially when family and friends tell
us how proud they are of us.
How has your life changed since
becoming a mother? How has that
affected you and your work as an
influencer? Motherhood has been such a
beautiful experience. The bond between
a child and mother is special. I couldn’t
even imagine my life any different. My
love for my first born makes my heart
so full. God’s goodness shines through
my son, and it’s a daily reminder that my
Father in Heaven loves me just as much.
Being a mother also created in me a
better version of myself. I am stronger,
more powerful, and confident in who
I am, because my little tiny human has
shown me just that.
As a new mommy & influencer, it has
its days when it comes to getting work
done. Some days I have felt guilty for
working, but writing keeps me sane.
It’s so important that I don’t put so
much pressure on myself to get things
done right away and stress myself out.
I’ve been taking each day by every
moment. My to do list stays long, but
it’s important that I listen to my body
and know when to slow down and
take breaks to be
present and focus
on my family.
To turn off my
computer, my
phone, and give
my undivided
time to what
matters most.
You’re pretty
open with your
followers about
the things you go
through and lessons
you’re learning.
What boundaries do you have in place
when it comes to what you’re willing
to share on social media? Transparency
and vulnerability is what drives me to
share. I knew I wanted a platform with
purpose, a place where we can uncover
our wounds and address our past. To
speak for those who do not have a voice
and let them know they matter. I share
things I grow through as well because
not only is it healing for me, it’s also
liberating. When it comes to boundaries,
I discern within myself whether it’s
the right time to share. I would never
share something my husband wouldn’t
appreciate me sharing. If I am going
through something right at this moment,
I normally wouldn’t share. I let God
reveal to me what he’s trying to teach
me before I open up for people’s
thoughts and opinions on social media.
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