Learn How To Communicate
Honesty is great, but if you
aren’t talking then you don’t
have a chance to implement
it and see how good it can be.
We always hear communication is key and this is simply the
truth. A relationship lacking in
communication is one that is
less likely to be successful. We
can’t get to know each other or begin to have a greater
understanding if we don’t take
the time talk. People should
learn how to effectively open
up and express themselves.
People also should learn that
listening is just as important
as talking. This minimizes the
chances of issues lingering and
not being properly addressed.
At the end of the day if we
can’t talk to each other then
should we really entertain trying
to be together?
Develop a Friendship
When we are friends the other
three on this list become a lot
easier to accomplish. Many
times dating is just an audition and the only people that go to auditions are performers.
If we want to build something genuine with this person then we shouldn’t overlook the
importance of being friends with that person. When a genuine friendship is in place you
are able to enjoy that person for who they are and not necessarily what they can give
you. It creates a great foundation for a fun, happy, and loving relationship. If they aren’t
the type of person you would really be good friends with, then why bother trying to be
their lover?
I believe that is a pretty strong five to focus on. Personally I am a man of GOD but I still
like to write my articles in a way that people of any belief can appreciate and gain
something from. So if I added one more to the list it would be about faith and spirituality,
but I’ll just address that more in another article. Ultimately I feel we should focus less on
getting a relationship and more on setting up the best relationship for us. One that can
be fruitful and positive. It may take some time but it will all be worth it in the end.
Check out Stephan Labossiere, Certified Life & Relationship Coach,
Professional Speaker, Bestselling Author, and Relationship Expert, at
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