Q: There is this guy I really like, he's intelligent funny and just all around amazing! Only problem is, I dont think he feels the same.
A: Here's the thing about guys, they're shy themselves at times, but in all honesty if the feelings were mutal he'd tell you. Most men are straight up and if he wanted you he'd tell you. Keep the friendship there, continue talking thats fine but move on from the thought of a romantic relationship with this one.
Q: I've been on Imvu for a while and I cant help but to notice I keep getting pulled down into messes that tear me apart. HELP!
A: In this situation, and on IMVU, I've found that people intentionally try to bring others down to make themselves feel better about who they are.