Global Etiquette Hand
and Greetings World
By Maralyn D. Hill
M
any of us have heard the
expression, “You have one
chance to make a first
impression.” Your handshake
and/or greeting are part of
that impression. I cannot begin to
cover all countries, so I will cover
what I know. In addition, times have
changed and new customs are being
introduced. That does not necessarily
mean they are being adopted.
My references have included “Do’s and
Taboos Around the World,” “Modern
Manners,” as well as numerous articles
I’ve read and experiences I’ve
encountered. Some conflict, so I’d
personally go with the lead of my
host, to whom I’m being introduced.
I’ve gone with my experience.
Handshakes
There is a new modified handshake
called “fist bumps.” Scientists claim it
is the most hygienic and recommend
it. Will it catch on? I’m not counting
on it. Customs and traditions play a
huge role in greetings and I’d pick the
choice of following my host’s lead.
In the United States, a woman or
man may offer their hand first for
a handshake. However, on a global
basis, a woman offers her hand first.
Algeria, Ghana, Hong Kong, and
Kenya – Both when meeting and
departing, a handshake is in order.
Australia – A good hearty handshake
is welcome.
Bolivia and Uruguay – Handshaking
is common.
Austria, Canada and Switzerland –
Firm handshakes are usual on meeting
and departing with good eye contact.
Caribbean – In general, shaking hands
on meeting and leaving is practiced.
China – Handshakes are acceptable
and a slight bow is appreciated. Age
and rank matter and the most senior
are introduced first. Someone may
introduce themselves with full name,
full titles, and company name. If that
happens, you should do the same. Be
sure to wait for the Chinese to offer
their hand. They may avert their eyes
as a sign of respect and you may
receive applause.
Denmark, Finland, Ireland, Norway
and Sweden – Shake hands on meeting
and leaving with a firm brief
handshake and eye contact.
Germany – Brief firm handshakes for
all, both greeting and leaving. Be sure
not to have one hand in pocket.
Italy – Handshaking and gesturing
are done by most, as well as using
titles if someone has one. A man waits
for a woman to offer her hand.
The Gulf States (Bahrain, Kuwait,
Sultanate of Oman, Qatar, and
United Arab Emirates) and Saudi
Arabia – Usually, they say “salaam
alaykum,” then shake hands and say
“kaif halak.” The host may put his
left hand on your right shoulder and
kiss you on both cheeks or take your
hand and hold it as your walk. It is
considered an insult to pull your hand
away sharply, as holding on is a sign
of friendship. Lingering handshakes
are to be expected. Women are not
included in this exchange.
Ivory Coast, Morocco, Tanzania,
Uganda and Zambia –