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Reconsidering Penis Enlargement Wishing you were a little bigger is common. If it’s becoming a fixation, stop and think before you do something rash. Talking to a doctor or a therapist can help. Research has found that when a doctor honestly reassures a guy that his penis is average-sized, he is likely to stop searching for surgery. You also need to be on guard against phony claims for miracle penis enlargement. “The main target for penis enlargement advertising is insecure guys who think all their power lies in their penises,” says Berman. “These guys are easy victims.” Ian Kerner, a sex counselor in New York, says that the imagined glories of a gargantuan penis are not all they’re cracked up to be. “When it comes to penis size, being average is really where you want to be,” says Kerner, the author of books including She Comes First. “Having a penis that’s too big can be a much larger problem -- pun unintended -than one that’s too small.” For guys who are too big for their partners, oral or vaginal sex can be difficult. “Size really doesn’t matter nearly as much as being a good and creative lover,” Kerner tells WebMD. “How you use your brains, your hands, your mouth, and everything else -- that’s what counts in the bedroom.” So consider: A quest for a bigger penis could leave you