date men and it’s almost
to the point where sex
is not something you’re
supposed to enjoy.
KK: Right!
AB: I don’t even like the
name sex. I don’t even
like the term making
love, it sounds like
work. It should be fun.
It should be a game. It
should be enjoyable.
Personally, I prefer the
term sharing love.
KK: Oh I like that.
That’s really amazing!
AB: Because you’re
sharing your body, you’re
sharing your soul, you’re
body fluids and so… My
experience with the vast
majority of American
women is that it’s a
taboo, something that
even in this modern time,
women are not allowed
or supposed to enjoy or
to relax around it. How
do you explain that?
KK Well, look at our
culture. How did this
country start? The
Puritans! The people who
couldn’t handle European’s
ideas, came over here
and started this entire
country based on Puritan
principles and sex was
evil and sex was bad. So
we have to go back and
we have to look at that in
see religion and culture’s
role in our sexuality now.
So America is just closedminded and I’m very
incredibly open-minded
and I feel like I’m such a
minority but I’m trying to
encourage other people
to really think outside
the f ox in the bed. It’s
really important that we
stop judging it so much.
I think a lot of girls
are taught - especially
because of slut shaming
such an issue now - we
were taught at a very
young age that we’re
just going to be a slut if
we like sex. So we turned
that stuff off when we’re
little. It’s okay to talk
about (I don’t want to get
too vulgar here) men and
masturbation but when