Love Commands Finding true love is without doubt one of the greatest human desires . The issue of love and relationship seems to pretty much be the top focus for most people . We compulsively talk about it , never stop thinking about it and most people ' s biggest motivation for living and doing what they do everyday comes from the enjoyment of the feeling and meaning that loving and being loved gives to them .
There are some people who are lucky enough to have love find them . Meaning , they did not have to go on a searching rampage to find their relationship partner . That special person incidentally came into their life to give them the quality and quantity of love they are satisfied with . On the other , there are some people who such good luck have not struck , thus needing to take the necessary action to find love and keep it . Though falling in love is a natural occurrence , we may still need to consciously setup ourselves appropriately so that the phenomenon can happen to us .
One of the first steps in setting up yourself to find love ( or for love to find you ) is loving yourself at the maximum level . If you want people to give you the type of love that unfolds into understanding , acceptance , support and appreciation you must be giving that type of love to yourself first of all . Having strong love for yourself builds self-confidence and stimulates the energy needed to really go out there and find someone to add more love in your life . Keep in mind however that meeting someone is not finding love . There may be people you ' ll meet and consider , but you may not find the type of love you are looking for in them . The best approach is to keep putting yourself out as much as possible until the right love is found . But you also need to display the characteristics that will attract love to you .