Looking after someone 2017, Wales | Page 16

Taking a break Caring for someone can be a full-time job so breaks are vital to your own wellbeing and quality of life. There are different ways in which you may take a break as a carer. Only you will know what type of break is best for you. You may need an hour each week, a day here and there, a week or two for a holiday, or a combination of all of these. Think about the kind of break that you need as a carer and what kind of alternative care the person you are looking after needs. 16 There are different options for getting alternative care (often called respite care) for the person you are looking after whilst you take a break: • getting help from the local authority social services department via assessments (see pages 13–14) “Catch up on sleep and give yourself time to think. When you’re caring there are often complex emotions to deal with and feelings of loss. There is no right way to use your time, just be gentle on yourself.” Looking after someone • arranging care yourself (see page 11) • support from friends or family • some organisations provide break services for carers or for the person being looked after (or both) If you want to go on holiday, either alone or with the person you are looking after, there may be some help you could get towards the cost. You could see if there are any local grants or schemes to help carers with the cost of a holiday and you could have a look through the list of organisations in our taking a break factsheet. Find out more at carersuk.org/break “It took years before I was able to consider respite for my daughter. Eventually after a difficult episode I gave in and accepted. Years on I now know I need that complete break each year. I come back recharged and more able to cope.” carerswales.org