multiple orgasms , something which is misleadingly thought to only be experienced by women and people with vaginas .
A lingam massage involves not just massaging the lingam ( the penis ) but also the testicles , perineum ( the sensitive patch of skin between the anus and the scrotum ) and the prostate ( thought of as the ‘ sacred spot ’).
‘ Lingam ’ is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates as ‘ wand of light . According to Annabelle Knight , sex and relationship expert at Lovehoney . “ The aim is to not just to have one orgasm but several . It is about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will turn into waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage .”
Technique , they say is everything . Sex guru Ashley Manta explains . “ I like to begin by thoroughly lubing my hands and running them up their inner thighs , moving into a diamond shape with my thumbs behind the balls and my pointer fingers resting on the pubic mound . Then , with my dominant hand , I wrap my fingers around the shaft and squeeze to the top , thoroughly lubricating the entire area . Don ’ t be afraid to use pressure ; it feels fantastic !”
Written by Phil Shirley
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