After reading an article in the London Post about transsexual escorts and how for some clients ‘ climaxing with a transgender escort is not only a sexual act that they have paid for , but a very sacred act between two people in a very intimate and delicate manner .’
Maybe this is the reason why a trans escort would charge extra for this service and the client will be more than willing to pay for this ? Who knows .
The truth is little is known about men ’ s sexual desire for and erotic attraction to male-to-female transgender women . We found a fascinating article entitled ‘ The Role of the Illusion in the Construction of Erotic Desire : Narratives from Heterosexual Men Who Have Occasional Sex with Transgender Women .’
Actually it is more of a study , which examines the narratives of a sample of heterosexual men who had an occasional sexual encounter with a transgender woman . The findings are incredibly interesting , if not altogether surprising .
Let ’ s face it , today ’ s society is being misled somewhat by mainstream porn , which implies anyone with a penis , be they cis men , non-binary people , or trans women , prefer intense , rigorous stroking until they squirt semen . While not every trans woman uses oestrogen , many ( if not most ) of us do , and their bodies work so much differently than cis men ’ s on hormone replacement therapy ( or HRT ).
The truth is , however , cisgender women are just as prone to cis men when it comes to believing and regurgitating these unrealistic stereotypes , often based on Tinder hookups and just general interactions with cis girls and couples on Tinder , and , of course , the highly fetishised pornography where girls with thick , throbbing cocks shoot wads of cum .
There ’ s a complete lack of even basic understanding of trans people , how their medication works . Some trans women have penises but feel uncomfortable using them during sex . Others are fine having their cocks touched but refrain from topping or penetrative sex . And many trans women are post-operative and do not have penises at all ; instead , they have vaginas .
In some cases , non-operative trans women have a penis ( which they prefer to call a “ clit ,” “ cock ,” or “ girldick ”) and have elected not to change their genital configuration . Because HRT feminizes their bodies , their clits often have soft , thin skin that prefers gentle stimulation . By all extents , it ’ s a feminine penis .
And , anecdotally speaking , many so called punters express a desire to have sex with a trans woman if she possesses physical characteristics that are stereotypically feminine . Many explain the importance of viewing their trans woman sexual partner ( s ) as ‘ real ’ women or cisgender women . Some are able to incorporate trans women into their personal definitions of women , while others emphasise the differences between trans women and cisgender women and do not perceive trans women as ‘ real women .’
Written by Phil Shirley
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