Living Well 60+ July-August 2014 | Page 30

30 TRAVEL J U LY / A U G 2 0 1 4 How to Take the Perfect Trip with Your Grandchild Patience and planning make traveling with youngsters easier by Jan Ross, Staff Writer My 8-year-old grandson is, by far, my favorite person to travel with. He’s easy to please as long as some of our meals include a milkshake from Chick-fil-A or some fried shrimp. He can travel for hours in the car without complaint as long as he has some form of electronic entertainment or some books. He allows me to kiss and cuddle him to my heart’s content, although just recently these displays of affection have to be done only when none of his friends are around. And he is the only one who truly appreciates the time spent to create a sand castle complete with shell decorations and an elaborate moat. Traveling with grandchildren can be a complete joy, providing memories for years to come. These trips just require a little patience and a lot of planning. Here’s how to undertake the perfect trip with your grandchild. • Involve the child’s parents. Even if the trip is just you and your grandchild, the parents will still want to be involved from the beginning in planning. Make sure the dates you are thinking about will work for them. Ask them for suggestions about things such as bedtime rituals and special toys the child might need, and check to see if there are certain foods, etc. the parents don’t want the child to have. • Plan a trip that everyone will enjoy. The things you like might not necessarily be the things your grandchild will want to do. Some kids may absolutely adore art museums and historic cathedrals, while others will be rolling their eyes and begging to head to the local waterpark. Talk to the children about where they would like to go and what they would like to do. They may not always have any idea about what they would like to do, so be imaginative. • Keep boredom at bay. When kids are bored, they get whiny, and when the kids are whiny, the adults are not happy. If you know you’re going to be in the car for hours, have plenty of games, movies, books, art supplies and whatever else you need to keep the children content. Buy a few little surprises that you can take out when boredom inevitably happens. • Keep everyone fed. Nobody is happy when they are hungry, and young kids may not even know why they are so unhappy and irritable. Keep healthy snacks available and plan regular meal (and bathroom) breaks. • Stay in touch. Even if your grandchild and you are very close, they still might miss their parents. This is the time when you buy ice cream! Just kidding – this is the time to let them call home or even do a video chat with their parents. Don’t let time slip away without spending some special travel time with your grandchild. Before you know it, they will be old enough that traveling with you is just not cool anymore. Plan a trip now! Don’t let time slip away without spending some special travel time with your grandchild.