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an aura does fire have? Even small children respect fire, do they
not? The parents need to have such aura of respect.
The minds of parents today have become confused and
broken. They speak as they please; their words are hurtful.
That is why children have become bad. The husband speaks
hurtfully to his wife and vice versa. A puzzle has arisen. This
should not be so in India. However, this is one of the effects of
the current time cycle of Kaliyug and so it will always be this
way. In all this, it is indeed a wonder that such a phenomenal
Science has arisen. Whoever encounters it, will attain liberation.
Deep Inner Intent Is the Final Key
Questioner : What should we do when our children get
on the wrong path?
Dadashri : When they get on the wrong path, you have
to remain as an observer and a knower. Keep a prayerful
attitude for their welfare. Pray to the Lord to grace them.
You have to understand and accept whatever happens is
correct. The fault decidedly is of the sufferer. The Lord has
said, “If you improve, then everything else will improve in your
presence.”
You should explain to your young children that every
morning after their bath, they should worship the Sun Lord, and
ask and pray for right intellect for themselves and the world and
for the salvation of the world. If they do this much, they will be
instilled with right values. This way the parents become free
from their karmic bondage with them.
Everything in life is mandatory. You have no choice in the
matter. Even if you borrow money for your son’s education, if
he behaves insolently towards you, you cannot remind him of
the sacrifices you have made for him, because you are duty-