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Life Without Conflict
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Despite having happiness, people do not know how to enjoy it.
Questioner : But utensils are bound to make a noise!
Dadashri : But how can you live with noisy utensils day
in and day out? People continue to live this way because they
do not have the understanding. If a person had awareness, he
would not be able to sleep at night with a single conflict. These
utensils (people) emit vibrations even if they are asleep, “He’s
like this,” and “He’s like that.” “He is awkward,” “He’s
difficult,” “He is unfit,” “He should be thrown out.” The other
(non-living) utensils do not emit any vibrations. People put in
their two-bit without understanding; they claim two utensils are
bound to make a noise! Listen here you foolish people! Are
you a utensil? Do we need to make a noise? No one has ever
seen this Dada make noise with anyone. Not even in a dream.
Why all the noise? The noise you make is at your own liability,
not anyone else’s. It is better for you to sit in a corner like an
idiot and tell yourself, “It is fine if I get tea for breakfast, if not
I’ll drink it at the office.” What’s wrong with doing that?
Besides, does tea not have its time also? This world never
operates outside the laws of vyavasthit. When the time comes,
you will get your tea, you will not have to make a noise for it.
It will come, whether you create vibrations or not. But in the
latter situation, you will create an account with your wife and
she will remind you one day that you were banging on the table
for your tea!
Understand Prakruti and Be Cautious
Men forget events, but women will remember them for
the rest of their lives Men are innocent and easygoing, they have
generous minds; they are forgiving by nature. Women, on the
other hand, will rehash by saying, “That day you said such and
such words to me and it really wounded my heart.” Alas even
after twenty years, her memory is so fresh? Many things will rot