Life Begins 50+ Magazine Spring 2014 | Página 13

health The possibility of discussing intimate or embarrassing problems with your GP means it’s easier for many people not to think of doctors as human.But they are, of course, very human. And although they’ve probably seen whatever your medical problem is many times before, that doesn’t mean that inside their professional outer shell they aren’t reacting - sometimes wanting to laugh, cry, shriek in horror or even retch. Such normal human reactions, although hidden by most GPs, are on full show in the new book by British doctor Benjamin Daniels, Further Confessions of a GP - which starts with a stomachchurning tale about a pensioner’s constipation and Dr Daniels’s “overwhelming urge to gag” during her treatment. The followup to his first book Confessions of a GP, this fascinating insight into life in general practice includes a wealth of patient stories, such as the teenager convinced he lost his virginity and caught HIV some time between leaving a bar and waking up in a kebab shop, a man plagued by a phantom ‘smelly bum’ condition, and a woman whose mobile phone turns up in an unexpected place. Dr Daniels, who uses a pseudonym so both his identity and that of his patients is protected, says one of his favourite stories is about John, a doctor who is his patient and is struggling to cope with work, and drinking too much. “He’s finding everything a bit difficult to manage, and I like to think it demonstrates that doctors are people too, who struggle with life in the same way everyone else does,” says Dr Daniels. The GP points out that most doctors have “seen everything” relating to the body, and reassures people that while they might feel embarrassed about going to see a GP about an intimate matter, it’s water off a duck’s back for the doctor. says. “It’s much more about trying to reduce symptoms and managing the individual consequences of a disease.” Offering reassurance and care are part of the reason he believes internet self-diagnosis, while sometimes helpful, will never replace GPs. “I think using the internet is probably more good than bad, but while the internet has a huge amount of information that no doctor could ever hold in their head, it doesn’t have the knowledge and experience that doctors have, to be able to put information and symptoms into context.” Dr Daniels says mental health issues are the most common problem patients come to him with - but not all those seeking such help are genuine. The book relates the story of a young man who demanded to be referred to a psychiatrist but was initially unwilling to say why. It eventually emerged that he was due in court on a GBH charge