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12BB AN INDEPENDENT SUPPLEMENT BY MIA MEDIA & COMMUNICATIONS GROUP TO MIAMI HERALD WELLNESS By Nzingah Oniwosan Nzingah Oniwosan Multidisciplinary Artist & Holistic Lifestyle Coach, Sankofa's Child Being a leader in business means you are responsible for others, have major goals to attain, and often have a lot to manage. For women the charge can be much heavier as they have to also balance it with being a REAL ESTATE By Barron Channer Twitter: @BarronChanner MONDAY, JANUARY 11, 2016 5 Simple Rituals mother and wife, which are two very different jobs. On the surface it may seem like she is doing a pretty decent job juggling all her roles; but in the middle of this incredible balancing act she fails to see that she has placed too much tension on the string that is holding it all together-HERSELF. Too often women of color do not apply the same attention to themselves that they apply to the world around them; it can be for various reasons. More often than not it is because of guilt, not understanding the importance of exercising self-care, also not being educated on how to do so. Self-care is important because it allows an opportunity to recharge the mind, body and spirit. When any of these areas are out of balance it throws everything out of sync. This means the quality of what you do is compromised and it is at risk of crumbling. One of my favorite quotes from Audre Lorde says “ Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation and that is an act of political warfare.” At the end of the not good to the people in your life or your business. So today we will focus on 5 simple rituals to maintain balance in our daily lives. 1. DRINK WATER It sounds simple enough but we take for granted the benefits of incorporating water in our daily practice. By simply replacing sodas and juices with water you will lose a few pounds, lower your blood pressure, and help stabilize your insulin levels. You also will have a clearer mind because you will be pushing toxins out of your body. 2. DISCONNECT FOR 20 MINUTES Step away from your phone, tablet, computer and any other form of technology. Take the time to just be with yourself. You can do it in the confines of your home or better yet go outside in nature so you can get your daily dose of Vitamin D. Disconnect once a week or daily. Just devote the time so you can recharge. 3. MOVE Movement or exercise is a great opportunity for you to distress. Jump rope a few minutes a day, dance to your favorite song, or while you are disconnecting for 20 minutes take a walk. You will be processing your stress in a healthy way and your body will love you. 4. PAMPER YOURSELF Take yourself on a date, get a facial, massage (great stress reliever) or spa manicure. By loving yourself you can get the love you want in return. 5. CONNECT TO SPIRIT Connect with your godself. Spirituality focuses on the well-being of your mind-body-spirit. Take the time to find out what works well to cultivate that connection. More recently many have chosen meditation as a means to do so. The following quote explains it best, “ Prayer is when you talk to God. Meditation is when God talks to you.” For more information follow Nzingah on instagram @yesbabyilikeitraw and visit her website www.yesbabyilikeitraw.com Real Estate is a Team Sport Real estate is like football. Success is the result of different people filling different roles while working together. The ability to recruit and collaborate with others will dictate your potential for success as an investor or developer. The leader of the team is the investor/developer. They recruit the individual members to the team and manage how the players work together. If you want to be the leader of the team then you must embrace a mindset of overseeing all the work while not controlling it directly, being responsible for solving all problems that the others players cannot solve by themselves and accepting the reality that most of the blame or glory will fall in your lap at the end of the day. The banker is a key player that helps to find money needed for the team. Most investors get