Law of Attraction Magazine September, 2019 Full Magazine | Page 12

?Ar r gh h h . On e Ch al l en ge Af t er An ot h er .? By Feat u r ed Col u m n i st El l en Wood The dog barfed on the new carpet, Aunt Lizzie is coming with her new boyfriend and the house (and you) aren?t ready, telemarketers keep calling and the washing machine just stopped working. You?re ready to tear your hair out. We all have days like that ? one challenge after another. It?s frustrating! Just when we think we?ve got everything under control and life is straightening out, something happens to throw us off kilter. As John Lennon said, ?Life is what happens when we?re making other plans.? That?s life! We can never get it under control. But you have a choice in how to respond in the fall-out of a situation that is difficult. Perhaps you?ve made your best choice, but there still may be parts of the situation that are hard to digest. For example, you miss a flight because you didn?t get to the airport on time. Instead of letting your blood pressure rise and berating yourself ? or your driver, or the traffic ? you take a deep breath and decide to use your extra time before the next flight to read a book you have in your carry-on. Great! You?ve chosen how to respond. Now, to take it to the next level, here?s a suggestion for the next thing to do: say something good will come of this. Then expect something good and watch for it. Maybe you?ll meet someone at the airport and have a great connection. Maybe you?ll run into an old friend. Maybe you?ll feel refreshed after a few unplanned hours of alone time. When faced with a challenge I say something good will come of this and time and time again, something wonderful happens as a result. I believe that saying something good will come of this puts my mind in a place where I am looking for the blessing. Maybe there?s always a blessing and we miss it by bemoaning the situation. Rather than let my mind run on automatic Page 12