Law of Attraction Magazine - Holiday Issue! May, June 2020 | Page 34

Countess Teleki?s World War II experience was horrific on so many levels, it made theVon Trapp Familymemoirs (on which the Sound of Music was based), seem tame. When I asked the Countess how she coped in the toughest of times, she said, ?I go outside.? She went on to explain how she always found comfort just being in nature. The trees, breeze, grass, mountains, flowers, etc. were a constant presence that convinced her regardless how horrible a situation was, it would eventually pass and all would be well again. Nat ure Anytime I?m feeling unsettled, like now with the Coronavirus (Covid-19) pandemic and all the fear it elicits, I remember something an extraordinary woman told me about twenty years ago. The late Countess Vera Teleki was the mother of one of my best friends ? Dudi. An Austrian citizen, she was forced to flee her homeland during World War II in order to escape the Nazis who were responsible for the death of her first husband. Secretly arriving in Budapest with her three small children and no money, she eventually found a job, met, fell in love with and married Count Charles Teleki who had three children of his own. They went on to have two more children together, my friend Dudi being the youngest. After a couple of years, the Nazis invaded Hungary and overtook the Teleki?s castle and estate (100 rooms on 6,000 acres ? I?ve seen the photographs) letting them live in three rooms. When the Allies defeated the Nazis and the Russians moved in, the combined family was forced to leave their home, wealth and all of their possessions. They eventually immigrated to Canada and settled at a dilapidated farm outside of Toronto because that was all they could afford. Turns out the ultraviolet light of the sun has potent healing properties. Joseph Fair, PhD, a virologist and epidemiologist calls sunlight ?nature?s greatest disinfectant? because its ultraviolet light inactivates bacteria and viruses. In addition, many studies have shown exposure to sunlight increases vitamin D levels enhancing the immune system and raises serotonin levels helping people avoid depression. So, when you?re feeling overwhelmed, do what the Countess Teleki did, go outside. Look at the trees, plants and flowers, breathe fresh air, get some sunshine, and let nature help you disinfect yourself and feel better. Past Lif e Love Michael f rom Bil oxi, MS, asked: Hi Jul ie, So here is my sit uat ion. My wif e and I have had some rocky t imes over t he l ast several mont hs and have al most spl it . I'm al most ashamed t o admit t his, but several weeks ago anot her girl and I st art ed chat t ing on Facebook, mainl y about paranormal st uf f . St rangel y enough, we real l y hit it of f and were chat t ing dail y. I don't know what it is, but we just had t his unbel ievabl e connect ion. We bot h f el t it and we al so f el t f amil iar t o each ot her, l ike we knew each ot her in anot her l if e or somet hing. Even st ranger, she is f rom Venezuel a and we st il l hit it of f amazingl y. We have even video chat t ed a f ew t imes. Page 34 I'm f eel ing t he weight of guil t here, but I?m al so f l oored by t he unbel ievabl e and indescrib- abl e connect ion we have. I woul d l ike t o ask my Spirit Guides why I have t his amazing connect ion wit h t his person at t his t ime? I've t rul y have never f el t a connec- t ion as st rong as t his. Al so, do we have some kind of past l if e connect ion? We bot h f eel t his coul d be t he case. Sadl y, at t he same t ime, I have f el t a discon- nect ion wit h my wif e. I'm at a l oss about t his. Any hel p woul d be great l y appreciat ed. Thanks, Michael Hi Michael, Thanks for your question. Although these feelings and sensations are new to you, they?re not uncommon. Were you and Miss Venezuela together in a past life? Yes, many past lives. Among other things, you have been her mother, sibling, colleague, spouse, and acquaintance which explains the close connection you sense. It?s quite probable you?re experiencing a type of déjà vu memory that can?t be explained with rational thinking. In addition, it sounds like fantasy is a big part of the equation. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines fantasy as,?The power or process of creating especially unrealistic or improbable mental images in response to psychological need.? You mentioned your marriage is experiencing ?rocky times.? That may indicate you might be satisfying an emotional or psychological need with this online relationship, one that could foster addictive even irrational behavior. Licensed clinical psychologist Steven Kimmons, Ph.D., of Loyola University Medical Center said, ?One spouse connects online with someone. The person is emotionally available, and they start communicating through Facebook. Within a short amount of time, the sharing of personal stories can lead to a deepened sense of intimacy, which in turn can point the couple in the direction of physical contact.? Studies show Facebook is cited in 1 out of every 5 divorces in the United States and according to a survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, (AAML), 81% of the attorneys polled said they have seen an increase in the number of cases involving social media evidence. Family Law Attorney Larry Hance says, ?Lawyers and clients arrive more and more often at the courtroom (or attorney?s office) armed with records from Facebook and social media. Any online activity? including email and text messages? is admissible evidence in Court.? One more point. Last year, theFederal Trade Commission(FTC) warned romance-related scams are now the most costly form of online fraud. Losses from online-dating-related fraud quadrupled in recent years, ballooning from $33 million lost in 2015 to $143 million lost in 2018. Has this woman asked you for money yet? Just because you?ve been together in past lives doesn?t mean she?s ethical in this one! Your spirit guides advise discontinuing your online relationship with Miss Venezuela and concentrating on fixing your marriage. Your current family is where you?re best suited at this moment in time. I agree! Ju lie Ryan , Psych ic an d M edical In t u it ive, can be h ear d on Law of At t r act ion Radio Net w or k w it h h er popu lar sh ow , Th e Ask Ju lie Ryan Sh ow. Ju lie w elcom es caller s ever y Th u r sday at 8PM ET, 7PM CT, 5 PM PT by callin g: (712) 770-4160 - Access Code: 533677# . Please su bm it qu est ion s t h at m ay be an sw er ed on -air t o: w w w.AskJu lieRyan .com . To h ear all pr eviou s episodes, please visit h er sh ow page at h t t p:/ / LoaRadioNet w o r k .com / ju lie-r yan. Page 35