Law of Attraction Magazine - Holiday Issue! May, June 2020 | Page 10

Con sci ou s sel f -l ove i s t h e
pr act i ce of u n con di t i on al
l ove f or you ...by you .
The world needs everyone to collect themselves
and find their self-love... but how? Most people
grew up without unconditional love from their
parents because it was more of an unconscious
and conditional variety. Even worse, some
people grew up with no real love at all and
perhaps were abused or experienced some
trauma. This lack of love is what we are seeing
expressed in the world today. To change this
situation, we bring it to our awareness and
rework it! All of your past experiences of others
being unkind to you are indeed upsetting. If we
see the experiences as (1) in the past, but which
is now ruling 85% of your behaviors... we will
understand that we are attracting negative things
to us. And (2), this a great opportunity for these
lessons to help us grow. It's at this point we can
move toward conscious self-love.
The import ance of pract icing Conscious
Sel f -l ove Dail y BEs and Dail y DOs.Your Daily BE
is your way of being. The lens or filter you use to
help process the incoming information will result
in the vibes/ energy you give out, whether
consciously or unconsciously. If your
subconscious suitcase is unpacked and you are
practicing conscious self-love, you will be able to
draw it all in and then give out this love. Some
people call this the self-fulfilling prophecy, the
Law of Attraction, Karma, or The Secret.
I like to use Dr. David Burns's idea from his
book,Feeling Good-The New Mood Therapy. You
are in a good mood, so you move about the world
pretty happy. People see and appreciate that.
They can only react or mirror 'happy' back to you.
The opposite would be true if you were acting
sad. Over time, these daily experiences of you
giving out one thing and then receiving back that
same thing starts to become your natural state.
Your Daily DOs are your behaviors in this world
that result from your Daily BEs. You have to be
good in your BEs if you want to be adaptive in
your DOs. Most people are not attending to their
BEs and then getting frustrated when their DOs
are not so wonderful.
When practicing conscious self-love DOs, you are
changed, and you've activated a sort of self-love
protection shield. In the beginning of this
process, DOing the self-love behaviors/ actions
changes your relationship with yourself on a
behavioral level, and also works to chip away at
our default filters and subconscious patterns of
unworthiness, which may stem from not feeling
deserving of love. Over time, you realize there is
nothing to DO to make you worthy of your or
You act l i k e you l ove YOU.
Li k e h ow you r best f r i en d
f eel s abou t you . Not f or
st u f f , n ot t o f u l f i l l you r
?pu r pose,? n ot t o get
r ei n f or ced... j u st so you f eel
w or t hy of l ove.
Con sci ou s sel f -l ove i s n ot
sel f - cen t er ed or n ar ci ssi t i c.
another's love. You are PERFECT as is, right now!
These DOs help you to come to recognize,
remember, and live at the much more fun state of
love bliss, where you and your 'Beautiful Soul'
belong!
You can learn more about how to develop
conscious self-loving Daily BE sandDail y Dos in
the book,Conscious Self-Love by Jill Blackwell,
Ph.D.
Dr. Blackwell, Ph.D., LPC, is
an award-winning
professor of psychology
and licensed clinical
practitioner with a unique
talent in taking another's
perspective and promoting
feelings of personal
adequacy and
empowerment. She
provides counsel in a kind,
compassionate, and
growth-promoting manner. Dr. Jill is trained in
the Healing Spectrums Method and is a Practical
Meditation Teacher. Please visit her website at
www.ConsciousSelf-Love.com
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- Peopl e w h o pr act i ce con sci ou s sel f -l ove ar e k i n d t o
t h em sel ves an d t r eat ot h er s w i t h k i n dn ess.
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t h em sel ves an d t r eat ot h er s w i t h accept an ce.
- Peopl e w h o pr act i ce con sci ou s sel f -l ove f or gi ve
t h em sel ves an d t r eat ot h er s w i t h f or gi ven ess.
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of t h ei r bodi es an d t each ot h er s t o do t h e sam e.
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ot h er s t o l ove t h em sel ves (especi al l y t h ei r
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l ove, accept an ce, f or gi ven ess, an d car e gr ow s.
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