Love Commands Step Two: Establish your objective. Obviously it is a love letter so you want her to feel loved, so that should be an overriding objective of your letter but in what way or style do you want to convey that love. That ' s what you are trying to identify here. What do you want the outcome of your letter to be? A laugh? A smile? Happy crying? This will dictate how you craft your letter. Estimated time: 2 minutes.
Step Three: Identify memories with her that correspond to your objective. Are you trying to make her laugh? Then share a story or two that shows you love her but were really funny. Maybe you tried to do something sweet once and she, unknowingly, foiled your plans. That has happened to me more than once. Regardless of what your objective is think of a memory or two that compliments it. It will make the letter more personal and show you care. Estimated time: 5 minutes. Step Four: Write the letter. Begin by stating your objective in the letter, kind of like your thesis statement from your
English classes, which you established in Step Two. Do it sweetly adding lots of kind adjectives about her( see my list of suggested adjectives at the end of this article). Share the memories you identified in Step Three. Explain why these memories are important and how they helped your love grow and mature. Thank her for allowing you to love her. Thank her for anything else that you feel prompted to thank her for. Estimated time: 7 minutes.