A monotonous tongue-rubbing-against-tongue rhythm can get a little dull. So if you want to be a good kisser, you ' ve got to mix it up.
Be creative. Gently chew on their lower lip, suck their top lip. Move up to their ears, suck their earlobe and gently bite their ear. Trail some soft kisses along their neck and then come back to their mouth, gently tugging on their bottom lip. Let your tongue wander around their mouth.
If you ' re feeling particularly sexy, you could try ' facial intercourse ', which is, as you might expect, mimicking sex with your mouth. Try rubbing your tongue around their mouth, then slowly suck your partner ' s tongue, and to finish dart your tongue in and out of their mouth. ' Use your tongue to imitate the longed-for thrusts of your pelvises,' says Tracey.
Sounds silly, feels good.
Listen to your partner
Remember to be in tune with your kissing partner. Just as with sex, everyone is turned on by different things.