female foeticide in future pregnancies as their in-laws want
a son. They refuse to take the step I took, as they don’t
want to deny their children a stable home and a father.
Even court has suggested that I should try to reconcile with
my husband. ‘I and my daughters will be killed the day I
move in with my husband’. The court said if I do not want
to live with my husband I could divorce him through mutual
consent. I said that I would do this, if the Hindu divorce law
was amended and enabled a man to divorce his wife if she
fails to provide him a son. My mistake according to my
husband and in-laws is only that I conceived daughters and
refused to abort them.
Most of the poor patients who come to me go on giving
birth to daughters, till they get a son. Sometimes I feel that
our society feels that a woman’s only duty is to produce
sons.
A woman like me who does not consider being a female a
congenital anomaly and refuses to abort her daughters is
victimized by society.
Most of the people I have encountered are of the view that
my husband and in-laws are not wrong in wanting a son. I
am being told that every family wants a son. A doctor
colleague in a hospital, I was working in till recently, remarked “sex determination and female foeticide must be a
rule rather than exception from the second pregnancy onwards.
The childern have started interacting with their father, and
now I am being threatened that if I do not withdraw my
cases, they would grab the custody of my daughters.
Therefore again today I am afraid for their lives. I saved
them, but our system is again putting them in danger, if I
continue to fight for justice.... WHY IS IT A CRIME BEING
A
WOMAN
IN
OUR
COUNTRY
WHICH
WORSHIPS GODDESSES?
Most of my doctor friends, who are married and have
daughters, accept they will undergo sex determination and
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