KingdomExec. Magazine April/May 2014 | Page 8

Overcome Overwhelm Libba Narron Lewey “I try to take one day at a time, but lately several days have attacked me at once!” Charlie Brown (Peanuts Comic Strip) Feeling overwhelmed? If so, you are not alone. Recently I read of an entrepreneur who had close to 700 emails to deal with. He had five speaking engagements that week, three blogs to write, a webinar to design; and on top of that, has a family of five children. He admitted to feeling overwhelmed and I’ll bet you can relate. We each have our own circumstances and brand of “overwhelm.” David Alan, author of Getting Things Done, says one of the top reasons for overwhelm is a lack of clarity around “who we are” and “what we are to be about.” You and I are running at 100 miles per hour with gusts up to 500. Yet, stop for a moment. Can you say with conviction that reading this article is exactly what you need to be doing at this moment? people is that very successful people say no to almost everything.” Warren Buffet Dr. Howard ‘Prof ’ Hendricks always encouraged his students at Dallas Seminary to make a “To Don’t List” as well as a To Do List. In order to reboot our time schedules, all of us have areas where we must say “no.” The “No” muscle is there. No is one of the most powerful words in leadership of self, families, and others. Say it kindly, say it clearly. Communicate “no” so there are no misunderstandings. Some experts advise that you give no excuse or explanation for your “no.” I don’t always buy that reasoning. Years ago, when doing interior design work, I had a wallpaper subcontractor named Ed, working in a commercial office building. We had a tight deadline to Number 1 Overcome Overwhelm Strategy: Get Clear complete the job. One afternoon Ed walked off the job “The indispensable f