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doc Summer 2014 • Kentucky Physician Health and Well Being Enjoying patients for over 30 years By John A. Patterson MD, MSPH, FAAFP Adrienne “Boo” Millett has been an ophthalmologist in private practice in Richmond Kentucky for over 30 years. She likes her patients and enjoys talking with them, which sometimes makes other patients wait. She also takes calls from other physicians during office hours, discussing referrals or providing phone consultation - something I appreciated when we shared mutual patients. She suspects that she and her office staff could do a better job of communicating about office wait times. Favorite leisure activities include playing piano and attending Broadway plays. She is in awe of great singers and actors. Her mother, a child welfare worker, was her main counselor and confidant as she raised her three sons. Every mammogram she has is accompanied by anxiety. As she approaches the age of her own Medicare eligibility, she admits, “I do worry about personal illness.” Even though she admits medicine can be all consuming, she enjoys befriending her patients and listening to their stories. Barring personal illness, she plans to continue practicing because she wants to, not because she has to. Greg Cooper has been a family physician in private practice in Cynthiana Kentucky for over 30 years. He thinks it’s hard for physicians to admit to burnout but says his wife would say he was close when he was losing sleep every third night on call in the years before ER physician coverage. He says, “A sense of humor is absolutely crucial. When the patient and I can walk out of the exam room laughing, it means a lot. I can practice for a long time like that. We shouldn’t take ourselves too seriously but accept our own limitations and recognize we are all human. Otherwise we run the risk of missing out on important, simply human parts of life.” Adrienne “Boo” Millett She feels most stressed when she gets behind in the office and patients fuss at her or get downright rude when they have to wait. She wonders why they don’t understand that she is trying to provide good care to all her patients, some of whom are complicated and take more time than expected. “That feels unfair to me. I try to take time for everybody,” she says. His choice of family practice reflects his wide range of interests, including playing guitar, creating art, hunting and fishing. He tells medical students that our pastimes are more important as we get into our careers. Being in nature and losing track of time doing art are both especially rejuvenating. He teaches Sunday school and considers his faith the most important thing in life. Still, he wasn’t comfortable praying with patients until recent years, responding initially to patien Ёɕ