Is she really my bestfriend?
Ladies, we all know that the secret to the best teenage life ever is none other than your BFF. Now if you dont have one, you should find one. If you cant find one, here are some helpful tips: 1.)Wear a smile. No one wants to be around a grumpy face. 2.) Put yourself out there. Dont be afraid to let people know who you are and what you like. Someone else out there has the same views as you. 3.) Get arrogant with your personality. If you are a social butterfly, dont hide that! If you are a wall flower, let yourself blossom, because the worst thing you can do in life is not be yourself.
Now if you already have a bestfriend, hooray for you!! However, some people dont have a healthy friend relationship. Does your BFF seem aggressive, or you feel like you clash heads alot? Or maybe you tend to be a pushover towards her. I have the answer to your problems... COMMUNICATION!! If your friend is not as friendy as you would like her to be, tell her what you feel. If she is a good friend, she will talk it over with you, and take what you say into consideration. As your bestfriend, she will grow from your constructive criticism.
If you ever find yourself changing for your friend, thats not your friend. She should accept you for who you are, flaws and all. Most important, you should be able to talk to your bestie about whatever. If she often judges you or doesnt want to listen to your opinions, you should tell her about that. The #1 thing you should never hear from your friend is " I told you so". Your friend should never say that. No matter if you took her advice or not, she should be there to comfort you either way. If you ever heard " I told you so", you should take a good long talk with her...
In conclusion, some people are able to work out their problems and have a happy ending. If this person is you, well done! If not, work on finding a bestfriend who compliments you. If you feel you have one that doesnt, take my quiz on pg3 RIGHT NOW.
-Just For Teens