June-July 2022 Issue #27 B4Y | Page 55

2 . Change at the gym
3 . Get naked
4 . Wear your usual gym attire
5 . Stand next to him at the urinal
6 . Don t wear headphones on the floor

2 . Change at the gym

Most cruising happens in the locker room , truthfully . You ’ ll find that most guys don ’ t want to be cruised too hard out on the floor . I love cruising and getting cruised , but I also take my gym time very seriously . If someone is overtly cruising me during a lift , it can be distracting and a little annoying .

3 . Get naked

Every time I go to the gym , I get naked three times : once when I ’ m changing into my gym clothes , again when I ’ m sweaty and taking them off , and when I change back into my day clothes after showering . The repeated disrobing give guys three opportunities to sneak a peek and make a move .

4 . Wear your usual gym attire

Don ’ t wear the shortest , tightest shorts you own . It ’ s sexier to wear actual athletic gear , not a cute club tank .
That said , don ’ t wear baggy basketball shorts . Wear workout clothes that fit , that show off your body ( shorts should fall mid-thigh , never lower than the knee ). Show off your personality . Some guys can get away with teal sleeveless hoodies printed with neon cats , but I can ’ t . ( Actually , I would totally wear that , tbh ).
Cruising is fun ( partly ) because of its illicit , wordless subtlety . Don ’ t be too obvious and try not to look like you ’ re hunting and thirsty AF . You can dress in skimpy clothes and still be wearing suitable athletic gear . I do .

5 . Stand next to him at the urinal

Close-proximity peeing is one the oldest tricks in the book . And it ’ s still one of the best .
When you ’ re standing next to him at the urinal , glance at him and give the nod . If there ’ s a divider , do not attempt to peek at his peen — not without his permission .
Let him know you noticed him . That ’ s all you can do . That gives him the go-ahead to glance back at you , or to nod down , directing your eyes to what he knows you want to see . If he ’ s bold ( or if there ’ s no one else in the bathroom ), he may turn sideways and show you what he ’ s packing .

6 . Don t wear headphones on the floor

Headphones are useful if you want to finish your workout and leave . However , if you ’ re on the prowl , be present and notice people . Headphones 55 read “ I am not interested so leave me