Experience
We all know that different men like different things . The more experience a man has of anal sex , the more likely he is to know what he likes or needs to enjoy getting fucked . Work on asking for what you want or telling your sexual partners what you need . If you both talk about what you want , or don ’ t want , it puts you in control of the sex you have and makes it more enjoyable .
Drugs and chems
Some men use drugs to enable them to enjoy anal sex more . Using drugs may reduce the user ’ s judgement , abilities and inhibitions , so that they do things on drugs that they wouldn ’ t normally consider . Drugs can also lead to longer and more intense sex sessions , which can cause condoms to break if there are not changed regularly , or make the transmission of HIV and other STIs more likely if condoms aren ’ t used .
Poppers ( amyl / butyl nitrite ) is a common drug used during sex and it can increase the pulse rate , cause dizziness and relax involuntary muscles – especially the blood vessel walls and the anal sphincter . Poppers has been linked with an increased risk of HIV transmission when used by a negative guy being fucked by a positive guy without a condom [ 4 ]. This may be because poppers can cause the blood vessels in your arse to dilate , which gives the virus a better chance of getting into the bloodstream . It may also be linked to the fact that poppers can relax the arse muscles making it easier for some men to get fucked , and for longer . You should never use poppers in combination with Viagra or other anti-impotence drugs as their interaction can cause heart attacks .
Ketamine is also used by some men for sex and it belongs to a class of drugs called ‘ dissociative anaesthetics ’, which separate perception from sensation . Other drugs in this category include PCP , DXM and nitrous oxide ( laughing gas ).
Other drugs used during sex include : GHB , ecstasy , grass / hash , coke , crack , crystal meth , Valium and Xanax .
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