#5) He knows himself.
He’s gone through a battle of the twenties,
lessons of the thirties, and peace and tranquility
of the forties. He knows what lies behind the
bush because he’s been there, done it. He
knows his boundaries and actually pays
attention to them rather than ignoring it
because he knows the dangers of doing so.
This kind of attitude will flourish any relation-
ship while inspiring you to find your own self.
He is wise, mature and a better lover.
#6) He’s found his purpose &
wants you to, too.
People who know their purpose in life live with
meaning. Every breath, every second is meant
to fulfill that purpose, and part of that purpose
is to bring his lover up to his level. He wants
you to find purpose too, and he’ll always be
there to lift your spirits when you feel lost—
which will be often.
#7) He fights for what’s right
rather than what’s popular.
He’s learned that fighting for what’s popular
keeps him afloat, but fighting for what’s right
lifts his spirits to gain much-needed
awareness of what life should be. All of this is
a part of maturity—knowing what’s important
and fighting for it. He no longer wants to be
a follower; he’s a leader, and a leader does
what’s right for the greater good and bigger
picture. You’re always going to be on the
winning team when you’re associated with
someone like him.
#8) He doesn’t sweat
the small things.
Why should he? He’s learned that the more
you dwell on tiny things the more likely it is to
explode into something more destructive. He’s
seen the aftermath of placing energy where it
needn’t be, and chances are he doesn’t ever
want to repeat the same mistakes.
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