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Result # 2 : They become a pleaser .

Let ’ s say your child doesn ’ t flee , and instead , you condition them to conform . You “ win ” and they become the non-power player who pleases you .
The first possible outcome of you “ winning ” by conditioning them to be a non-power player is that when they leave your home , they seek out a new power player to control them , and this power player may not have their best interests at heart .
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The second possible outcome is that they simply learn how to navigate you . They figure out ways to make you happy , and make you think they ’ re doing what you want . But as soon as they ’ re out of your sight , they do whatever they want , which means all you ’ ve taught them is how to navigate and con you , and they ’ re pretty good at it .
We resort to Demand Parenting in an attempt to instill values and protect our kids , but what we ’ ve accidentally taught them to do is lie and manipulate .
That ’ s why , when children become teenagers and they ’ re ready to experience more of their own power , but they ’ ve grown up in that box of being the non-power player , you get teenage rebellion .

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