25 . Stranger Play
If you ’ ve ever hooked up with a stranger , perhaps even before getting their name , congrats , you ’ ve tried stranger play . “ Stranger play is one of my favorites ! When I was younger , I convinced myself that women found me attractive more for my personality than my body . So , a total stranger who doesn ’ t ‘ know ’ me en- gaging in a specific sexual scene is really affirming ,” says Billy Procida , host of The Manwhore Podcast .
26 . Emetophilia
Gag warning : Emetophilia is a sexual fetish in which one gets aroused by vomit . Yes , it ’ s real , and it ’ s more common than you think . A lighter version of emeto- philia may play out as finding it a turn-on if someone gags during a blow job . A higher octave version is simply getting wet for puke .
27 . Klismaphilia
Klismaphilia is arousal from enemas . Some folks , usually those who enjoy re- ceiving anal sex , will prep beforehand with an enema to make sure the mess is minimal ( a trick also used on porn sets ). However , others find enemas them- selves arousing . This can be part of a larger medical fetish and may involve a fantasy of a doctor using an enema on you .
28 . Electrostimulation
According to Richmond , electrostimulation is a pretty common kink . It involves using electricity for sexual purposes , and yes , it can be done safely , using kinky toys such as through a Violet Wand , for sexual gratification . It tends to be part of a bigger D / S dynamic .
Remember , regardless of your fetish or kink , consent is paramount . “ Kinks and fetishes are fertile grounds for misunderstandings if consent is not explicit ,” explains Renye . Once you obtain consent , expressing your sexual desires is one of the healthiest things you can do for your sex life : Fetishes that are repressed rather than expressed can take their toll on both individuals and relationships . As long as the desire is safe and based on consent from everyone involved , ev- eryone deserves to pursue theirs .
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