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Dear Greta ,
I am a 22 year old man , engaged to a 25 year old woman . I love her dearly , but I have one problem . I ' m scared to death of getting married . My fiancee has already been married once and her divorce wasn ' t exactly pretty . Although she says she ' s willing to try again , I ' m not sure I ' m ready to take that big step . I asked her to marry me last fall , but now it seems as if the Cold-Feet Syndrome is kicking in . Lately , I find myself thinking about other women and some of her ways are getting on my nerves . Am I being foolish for being nervous ? Should I just call the whole thing off and risk losing the woman I love ? Please help !
- Cold Feet
Dear Cold Feet ,
If it ' s merely a case of cold feet , then I ' d say that ' s normal . However , if you have doubts about making such a life-altering commitment at this time , then you need to explore this . Before saying anything to your fiancee , sit down and think long and hard about what exactly is bothering you . If it ' s simply a matter of some irritating habits of hers , then ask yourself if you feel you can live with those habits without letting them get to you . If you can , that ' s fine , it is simply cold feet and nothing to really worry about it . If , however , you are attracted to someone else or suspect she might be , I suggest you take some more time before walking down the aisle . Good luck to both of you !
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