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How to give a guy a blow job
Sucking cock is a core sexual activity for most gay men [1] but different men like different
things. Some like lots of activity around the head of their cock; others find the head too sensi-
tive and prefer it if you work along the shaft of the penis. Some men don’t enjoy deep-throating,
and more men than you may think aren’t keen on receiving blowjobs at all. Ask your partner
what he likes and doesn’t like; if you’re too shy to ask you’ll have to try to interpret his groans.
Men tend to be quite visual – they like looking at what’s going on to help get them turned on –
so give them a chance to see what you’re up to down there. A good blowjob doesn’t only in-
volve the cock. There are plenty of other sexually sensitive areas close by – his balls and ball
sack, for example – so try licking those too.
While some guys just want rhythmic pumping on the end of their cock, many of us like a bit of
variation. By alternating the amount and speed at which you suck or lick, there are hundreds of
combinations you can come up with! You can also alternate hot and cold sensations by rinsing
your mouth with a warm drink and iced water in turn.
One way to vary your technique (and to give your jaw a rest) is to use your hands. Here are two
tricks to add to your repertoire:
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