Don't give up. If she is willing be
persistent and always gentle and
supportive. Try, try again. Believe me it
will work and both will have the greatest
pleasure either could have ever
imagined!!!
Wash up first and lots of lube - Anonymous
woman, NY
I never gave it a second thought. Me and my
guy never even talked about. We were fooling
around one time, and it slipped in. We didn't
pursue it, but because I was so wet at the time,
it didn't hurt. I was interested in trying it fully,
so I suggested getting some anal-specific lube,
and it *really* worked well. It slipped right in
with no pain. Never try it without lubrication,
that's the biggest key.
He did it very slowly, because the pressure
inside can be uncomfortable if it goes too fast
on first entrance, as well as any normal
discomfort of having something a couple times
the size of your asshole plowing in. This is
something that takes a lot of relaxation and
trust for a female who is an anal virgin. If your
girl shows in other ways that she is into new
ideas, this might be easier. If she feels gross
about it (it is after all her ass) prepare her by
JOY FEELINGS