responsibility. When you
feel those feelings take
time to get present and
to look within and
understand what
it is inside of YOU that
is asking to be healed. You
were attracted to this
woman because she was
the person best suited
to trigger all of your
childhood wounds in the
most painful way so that
you could heal
them...when you heal
yourself, you will
no longer be triggered
by her, and you will
wonder why you ever
were.
8. Allow her
to just be. When she’s sad
or upset, it’s not your job
to fix it, it’s your job
to HOLD HER and let her
know it’s ok. Let her know
that you hear her, and that
she’s important and that
you are that pillar
on which she can always
lean. The feminine spirit
JOY FEELINGS MAG!
is about change and
emotion and like a storm
her emotions will roll
in and out, and as you
remain strong and
unjudging she will trust
you and open her soul
to you...DON’T RUNAWAY WHEN SHE’S
UPSET. Stand present and
strong and let her know
you aren’t going
anywhere. Listen to what
she is really saying behind
the words and emotion.
9. Be silly. Don’t take
yourself so damn
seriously. Laugh. And
make her laugh. Laughter
makes everything else
easier.
10. Fill her soul every
day. Learn her love
languages and the specific
ways that she feels
important and validated
and CHERISHED. Ask
her to create a list
of 10 THINGS that make
her feel loved and
memorize those things and