JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE July issue | Page 35

Let’s face it, most women today have a borderline A.D.D. situation going on… But seriously, most men are extremely grateful when they find a patient woman. A.D.D. is cute to some guys at first (I find it hilarious and love to make light-hearted fun of women like this) but impatience can slowly turn into unnecessary frustration and emotional aggression when things don’t happen fast enough. What I’m talking about is relaxing more and being more open to going with the flow of your relationship with him. This is the same attitude that rockstars have, and rockstars, whether male or female, are some of the most desired people on the planet. Why is patience so valuable to being attractive to men? Because it is very RARE for a man to find and subcommunicates confidence and desirability. Here’s a secret about men most women will never understand. Men are purpose and goaloriented… Men value the vision they want to create in life above all else. It could be that he wants to start a family, travel the world, build a business… it could be anything. The point is when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax with his path. If she does he will literally feel that she completes him. : Self-Care And Beauty While I talk a lot about inner beauty, it is expecting too much to not keep yourself looking good and think that men will chase after you.