Sex definitely does not have to get boring in a long-term
marriage. As the years go by, your sex life should get better.
You both know each other so well by now. What makes each
other feel good, likes, dislikes, habits and so on.
But, we do know that life can get in the way. Chores, kids,
finances and so on can put a damper on the romance. These
everyday things can interfere with both our desire and finding
the time to put into our sex life. You do not want to put sex last
on the list. Some of you may need some help figuring out how
to both prioritize sex and keep it exciting.
Communication is the key to a healthy and active sex life in a
marital relationship, so talk with one another more! Chatting
about superficial things can be fun, but remember to go deeper
in order to really establish intimacy. Be sure to talk about your
innermost thoughts and feelings. Do so frequently!
Share with one another your sexual desires. Be open and
honest about what you want. You do not have to use this time
to be critical of your partner. Just assert what you want more of
in the bedroom and what makes you feel good.