When life becomes busy, and schedules are hectic, plan for
sexual encounters with one another. Some people may find this
undesirable, but it all depends on how you look at it. You can
make this just as exciting as spontaneous sex. Flirting
throughout the day or specifying a "date for sex" can build
anticipation. To make sex one of your main priorities means it
may need to be scheduled.
Try to set the mood in advance. If you want to have good sex at
night, start the foreplay in the morning.
Let your spouse know you care and are thinking about him/her
throughout the day by notes, e-mails, texts, phone calls, hugs,
etc.
Don't expect your spouse to be the only one in your marriage
who is responsible for romance. You both need to take
responsibility for having an intimate and successful marriage.
Hold hands and show affection more often. Women particularly
need to feel loved and connected in order to have the desire
for sex.
Make time for date nights and other novel activities together,
Be open to trying new things!
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