yours), a revealing slip of the tongue— these are signs
that the victim is slipping into the moment and pressure
is to be applied.
Master the Art of the Bold Move
One person must go on the offensive, and it is you.
Beware the Aftereffects
Stir the pot, even if that means a return to inflicting pain
and pulling back. Never rely on your physical charms;
even beauty loses its appeal with repeated exposure.
Only strategy and effort will fight off inertia
Maintain your mystery and lightness
Avoid the slow burnout, Once you feel disenchanted
and know it is over, end it quickly, without apology.
Once you are truly disenchanted, there is no going back,
so don’t hang on out of false pity. It is more
compassionate to make a clean break. If that seems
inappropriate or too ugly, then deliberately disenchant
the victim with anti-seductive behavior.
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