Joy feelings magazine JFMAGAUG-OCT | Page 66

To leave people who are inaccessible to you alone is a wise path; you cannot seduce everyone. Never rush into the waiting arms of the first person who seems to like you. That is not seduction but insecurity. People who are outwardly distant or shy are often better targets than extroverts. They are dying to be drawn out, and still waters run deep. On the other hand, you should generally avoid people who are preoccupied with business or work— seduction demands attention, and busy people have too little space in their minds for you to occupy. Creating a False Sense of Security, Approach Indirectly Once you have chosen the right victim, you must get his or her attention and stir desire. To move from friendship to love can win success without calling attention to itself as a maneuver. First, your friendly conversations with your targets will bring you valuable information about their characters, their tastes, their weaknesses, the childhood yearnings that govern their adult behavior. 65 JF MAG 2019!