He stops behaving like his
natural self and becomes
nervous and tense around
the woman.
He doesn’t want to say
anything that she might
not like, so he sticks to
safe, boring conversations
like, “What do you do for
a living? How long have
you worked there?” or
“Oh, that’s a ncie dress.
Where did you buy that
dress?”
He tries to say “cool”
things that he hopes will
impress her.
He tries to make a good
impression by being on his
best behavior around her.
The guy hopes that the
woman will think, “Wow,
he’s such a nice guy. He’s
saying all the right things.
He seems like a really
good guy…a trustworthy
guy. He’s so likeable. I
could introduce him to my
family and friends. I want
to be with him!”
Yet, this approach to
women almost always
backfires and causes the
woman loses interest
instead of becoming more
interested. Why? 95% of
the guys a woman meets
will put on that type of act
around her. She’s not
stupid; she knows that it
isn’t the guy’s natural
personality. She knows
that he’s trying to trick
her into seeing him as an
innocent, non-threatening
guy who she should “give
a chance” to.
The Secret to Impressing
Women