Joy feelings magazine January 2019 issue | Page 13

of foreplay to yet others.
But, the one thing that
stays true to all these
three is that love, my dear
friend, is an art. A well-
performed, indulgent
form of art that can only
be mastered by the innate
feeling of it all. Emotional
or purely physical is
another debate
altogether. When you’re
in bed with a woman;
what you’re primarily
doing to her is making
love; making her feel
things she may or may not
have felt before. You
instill in her feelings, no
matter how momentary,
or everlasting they might
be.
When you’re in bed with a
woman you’re creating
art—a poem, a song, a
story, or a painting. You’re
creating energy and
movement that makes
even the disbelieving
woman believe; the
atheist convert and the
angered calm their
nerves.
So how do you take a
woman to your bed, and
not have sex but make
love to her, instead?
You start by taking her
out—to a fancy place.
Treat her like a queen.
Open the champagne,
pour her a glass, pull the
chair out for her; hold the
door. Ask her what her
tastes and preferences
are. Look into her eyes.
Smile at her. Take her
hand. Go for a drive. Ask
her what she wants to do.