JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE February Love issue 2017! | Page 46

You are supposed to be the person who is making life miserable and the relationship untenable. By doing something nice, you force the cheater to think about what he or she is doing.

18. Your mate turns the table and accuses you of cheating but has no evidence.

19. Your mate would rather spend time with friends than be with you.

20. Your mate shows no interest in your relationship ' s future.

21. Your mate stops being affectionate.

22. Your mate is more interested in reading a book or watching television than talking with you or making love to you.

23. Your mate frequently talks about the problems a friend, neighbor, coworker, course instructor or classmate of the opposite sex is having.

24. Your mate begins using new catch phrases.

Your mate also starts to tell types of jokes or express opinions that are unusual for him or her.

25. Your mate pays less and less attention to your children.

They seem to sense something is wrong and don ' t seem to be as emotionally healthy or secure as they once were.

46 JOY FEELINGS!