commitment, not a break
up.
Make sure you both are
happy before thinking
about getting into a
marriage.
If you can't give him the
time he needs to sort
through his feelings, he
will feel pushed into it.
If marriage is something
that you cannot live
without and something
that he is not interested
in, then you are with the
wrong person. The only
alternative is to rethink
your own position on
marriage. If being with
him means more than
getting married, then
you need to change your
own opinion.
OTHER WAYS WOULD
BE…
Every chick knows how hard
it is when she puts in serious
time with a guy who refuses
to commit... until he moves
on to his next girlfriend, and
then suddenly, he's springing
for a rock.Women assume
that a guy will pop the
question once he finds
someone he's compatible
with, i.e., The One. But that's
not enough to push him over
the edge, according to
clinical psychologist Alon
Gratch, PhD, author of If
Men Could Talk. What, then,
does it take?
"Being ready," says Gratch.
"In my 25 years of
experience working with men
as a relationship therapist, it's
49 percent the right woman,
51 percent his readiness to
commit." That means that
compatibility is hugely
important. But if he's not in a
marriage mind-set yet, he's
not going to commit to
anyone...not even Gisele.